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"Xa ndisengumntwana, izithende eziphakamileyo ziphupha nje kum. Ngalo lonke ixesha unxibe izithende eziphakamileyo ezingafanelekanga zikamama, ndihlala ndinomnqweno wokukhula ngokukhawuleza, ngale ndlela kuphela, ndiyakwazi ukugqoka izithende eziphakamileyo kunye nezingcono, kunye ne-makeup yam kunye nesambatho esihle, yiloo nto endiyicingayo njengoko ndikhula.

Omnye wathi yimbali ebuhlungu yesithende, kwaye abanye bathi umtshato ngamnye uyindawo yezithende eziphakamileyo. Ndikhetha isikweko samva."

Intombazana, eyayicinga ukuba ikwazi ukunxiba isithende esinye esibomvu kwitheko lakhe lokuza-ubudala, ngentliziyo elangazelelayo, ijika, ijikeleze, ijikeleze. Nge-16, yafunda indlela yokunxiba izithende eziphakamileyo. Nge-18, wadibana nomfana ofanelekileyo. Nge-20, emtshatweni wakhe, yintoni ukhuphiswano lokugqibela afuna ukuba kulo.

Waye kumgangatho wesibini, kodwa isithende sakhe esiphakamileyo sashiya kumgangatho wokuqala. Ngentsasa elandelayo wayeza kunxiba isithende sakhe esiphakamileyo esitsha aze aqalise ibali elitsha.

Uhlala ethanda izicathulo, ngakumbi izithende eziphakamileyo. Iimpahla zinokuba nesisa, kwaye abantu baya kuthi umhle. Kodwa izicathulo kufuneka zibe zilungile, kungekhona nje kuphela, kodwa ziyanelisa. Olu luhlobo lobuhle obuthe cwaka, kunye ne-narcissism enzulu yomfazi ngokunjalo. Kanye njengokuba i-slipper yeglasi ilungiselelwe iCinderella. Umfazi ozingcayo nolilize akanakuyinxiba nokuba inqunyulwe iinzwane. Ubumnandi obunjalo kuphela bobunyulu kunye nokuzola komphefumlo.

Ukholelwa ukuba kweli xesha, abafazi banokuba ne-narcissistic. Kanye njengokuba wakhulula isithende sakhe esiphakamileyo ngelo xesha, wanxiba isithende esiphakamileyo esitsha. Unethemba lokuba abasetyhini abaninzi baya kuxhotyiswa ngokunyathela kwizithende zabo ezingathintelwanga nezibafaneleyo.

Waqala ukufunda ukuyila izihlangu zabasetyhini, waseka iqela lakhe le-R&D, kwaye waseka uhlobo oluzimeleyo loyilo lwezihlangu kwi-1998. Wagxila ekuphandeni indlela yokwenza izihlangu zabasetyhini ezikhululekileyo kunye nefashoni. Wayefuna ukwahlukana nenkqubo yesiqhelo aze amise yonke into. Umdla wakhe kunye nokugxila kwakhe kwishishini kumenze wanempumelelo enkulu kwinkalo yoyilo lwefashoni eTshayina. Uyilo lwakhe lwangaphambili kunye nolungalindelekanga, oludityaniswe nombono wakhe oyingqayizivele kunye nobuchule bokuthunga, luthathe uphawu kwiindawo eziphakamileyo.Ukususela kwi-2016 ukuya kwi-2018, uphawu lubhalwe kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zefashoni, kwaye uthathe inxaxheba kwishedyuli esemthethweni yeVeki yeFashion. Ngo-Agasti ka-2019, i-brand yaphumelela iwonga lolona hlobo lunempembelelo yabasetyhini baseAsia.

Kudliwano-ndlebe lwakutsha nje, umseki wacelwa ukuba achaze ukuphefumlelwa koyilo lwakhe ngamagama. Akazange athandabuze ukudwelisa amanqaku ambalwa: umculo, amatheko, izinto ezinomdla, ukwahlukana, isidlo sakusasa kunye neentombi zam.

Izihlangu ziyahexa, ezinokugudisa igophe elimnandi lamathole akho, kodwa kude nokudida kweebras. Ungatsho ngobumfama ukuba abafazi banamabele anomtsalane kuphela. I-sexy ehloniphekileyo ivela kwizinto ezifihlakeleyo, njengezithende eziphakamileyo. Kodwa ndicinga ukuba iinyawo zibaluleke ngaphezu kobuso, kwaye kunzima, ngoko ke makhe abafazi bagqoke izicathulo zethu ezizithandayo kwaye baye ezulwini kumaphupha ethu.